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Michael S. Logan is a brain fitness expert, a counselor, a student of Chi Gong, and licensed one on one HeartMath provider. I enjoy the spiritual, the mythological, and psychological, and I am a late life father to Shane, 10, and [url=http://www.mxitcms.com/abercrombie/]abercrombie milano[/url] Hannah Marie, 4, whose brains are so amazing.
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What Fisher has discovered is that romantic relationship is the function of three parts of the brain's reward system, the lust, love, and trust systems, each governed by a particular hormone and/or neurotransmitter, and Fisher's work also indicates that we have the best chance for romantic relationships if we work to have romantic chemistry with the right personality type.
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Fisher says that with her additional data from the responses from her Oprah Winfrey survey, she can offer scientific guidance about dating depending on which personality you are—especially if you're looking for chemistry that lasts.
Although at first blush, this scientific modeling of what every one of us has gone through or wants to go through seems a bit sterile, I am still relieved that there can be an order to it, because I grew up the Disney model, which requires the Fairy Godmother's intervention or the Hefner model which was an early take on the Nike slogan, "Just do it".
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Her description of how men sit next to their friends while they both silently face the enemy is exactly how I like to work with my male colleagues, and her description of how women do intimacy is extremely helpful for this male brain.
In other words, I and the object of my romantic attraction can build in both types of intimacy, keeping lots of the oxytocin, androgen, and dopamine running in our brains.
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Kenny and I could do our shifts and go home with minimal conversation, and we actually took some pride in simply knowing what had to be done next, and doing it.
It was always a mystery to us when the women in our lives wanted to do things face to face, and talk, and gaze into our eyes.
Men do not typically do eye gazing with other men.
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So I suggest that couples early in romantic relationship do some things to activate calmness.
Robert Epstein,Ph.D., says that couple should schedule time to work on intimacy exercises, like soul gazing or heart beat synchronization.
I was actually quite excited to Epstein's mention of heart beat synchronization, because I have done that with clients using a computerized heart rate variability biofeedback program called Heartmath.
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Once couples learn Heartmath individually, then can learn to attend to the heart beat of the relationship heart beat by heart beat rather than crises by crises, in other words they build in calmness, affiliation, and cooperation from the get-go.
I know that heart beat by heart beat chemistry tends to minimize the need for intervention from the Fairy Godmother and maximize the potential for the "Just Do It" part of marriage.
So go do it.

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