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Four good way for you to stay away from bad habits,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]
cheap nfl jerseys Bad habits are among the worst enemies of living life to the fullest. Why? Because habit is something we do over and over again. While we do other kinds of mistakes occasionally,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], bad habit is something we do consistently over time. If even one mistake can drag your life down, you can imagine what kind of damage bad habits can do.
To make matters worse, often we don't realize that we have bad habits. We think that we just live our life as usual while we are actually making mistakes again and again. It's like having leaks in our ship without realizing it.
cheap nhl jerseys So breaking bad habits should be among your top priorities to get the most out of your life. If you do it right,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and you are on your way to make significant improvements in your life.
The first step to breaking the bad habits is to identify them. Only after identifying them can you decide to do something about them. Here are two tips for identifying the bad habits you might have:
1. Compare your life with your value system
cheap mlb jerseys Do you live according to your value system? Or do you deviate from it here and there? Your value system acts like a compass that guides your life. When you do things that are not according to your life compass, you know that you have a problem. So look for things you consistently do that deviate from your value system. Those are your bad habits.
2. Compare your life with a role model
Sometimes it's easier to compare your life with someone else's life than to compare it with an abstract value system. So find people whose life you want to emulate and find the details of how they live their life. Is there anything they don't do that you consistently do? For instance, perhaps they are never late. You, on the other hand,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], are perpetually late. That's a bad habit you should stop.
The next step after identifying the bad habits is to break them. I'm glad I found some good tips for it in the book Become a Better You by Joel Osteen. While the book is based on Christian principles, many lessons in it are universally applicable including its suggestions on breaking bad habits. Here are four tips to stop bad habits based on the book:
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2. Replace it with a good habit
Quit feeding the bad habit is essential but it's not enough. You must also replace it with a good habit. Otherwise there is an empty space in your life where the bad habit could go back to anytime,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].
So develop a good habit to replace the bad habit. For instance, if you have the habit of thinking negative thoughts,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], you should replace it with the habit of thinking positive thoughts. Whenever negative thoughts come, use it as a trigger to start thinking positive thoughts. Or if you have the habit of eating unhealthy food, you can start developing the habit of eating healthy food. Just don't leave the space empty.
3. Press past the initial pain and discomfort
When breaking a bad habit,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the beginning of the process is the most difficult. Just like getting a space shuttle lifted off the Earth takes enormous amount of power, it also takes enormous amount of willpower to break a bad habit. And just like moving a space shuttle that has escaped the Earth's gravitational pull takes little energy,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], it also takes only little amount of willpower to continue doing your new habit.
The initial phase is the most difficult, but it will become easier and easier over time. So whenever you think that it's too difficult to stay on course, just remember that it won't be so for long. You just have to keep moving forward.
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Once you decide to break a bad habit, stick with your decision. Make no exceptions to come back to it for whatever reason. I know it's not easy (at least for me),[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], but this step is essential if you want the process to get easier over time. Making exceptions is like taking a space shuttle back to Earth; you need another enormous amount of power to lift it off again. So be careful not to make exceptions when you are dealing with bad habits.
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