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Donald Young needs to cut cord with parents
Programming note: I'll be on vacation next week. Tennis event.
Remember Donald Young,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]?
Vaguely. If we're talking about the same guy,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], he turned 20 last week. Recently lost at the Aptos Challenger, the same event he won two years ago. Hasn't played an ATP main draw in many months. qualifiers -- and then, apparently exhausted,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], lost the qualifying match,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], 6-3, 6-0. That guy?
Look up Young's Wikipedia entry and the first line under "career" reads: "Young is coached by his father, Donald Young Sr., and mother, Illona, who are both tennis teaching professionals." Therein lies the problem. Look, I don't envy the Youngs at all. You have an abundantly talented son who is your only child. The tennis roadside is littered with prodigies who took wrong turns and never made it to the desired destination. You've seen the Williams family do it "their way" with smashing results. It's understandable that you might be skeptical of the many coaches or gurus and advisors who would like to work with your kid.
Still, at some point you have to recognize your limitations,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], accept the reality,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and cut the proverbial cord. And if you're Donald Young, you need to mass the courage to say,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], "Mom and Pop: this doesn't diminish my love for you at all. I appreciate all the sacrifices you made. I'll always be your son. But I need some space here. I'm stagnating, if not regressing, and it's time to make a change."
Young,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], sadly,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], is now well outside the top 100. Players with far less innate talent have passed him by. He's worked with some top-level coaches but -- often because of the parental propinquity issue -- none have stuck around. And from USTA funding to rafts of wild cards to practice sessions with John McEnroe,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], he's been given every advantage. If he doesn't make it, the tennis "establishment" won't be to blame.
The good news? He's still "only" 20, still left handed, and still full of talent. Plenty of Grand Slam winners -- see, Rafter, Pat -- were no better off at this point in their careers. He has enough cachet that he still has endorsement deals with Nike and Head. There are well-regarded coaches interested in working with him. Serena), how about this simple fix: You can't be ranked No. 1 unless you have won at least one major in your career. As you said, the majors are the "tent-pole events" of the sport. It's counterintuitive to see someone ranked No. 1 who has never won on the biggest stage, even if they have done exceptionally well at lower tier events. In the current situation, Serena would be ranked No. 1 because of her stellar play at the Majors and despite her pedestrian showing at other events. And Safina would be a very respectable No. I don't think it's realistic. So if Safina had won a Major in 2006,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], you'd be okay with her 2009 ranking? That seems unfair to me. And again, front-loading all the Slams with the rankings points has the unfortunate consequence (intended or unintended) of diminishing the value of regular WTA events. If 90 percent of your grade were based on the midterm, would you bother coming to class after that?
The WTA is taking a lot of heat for the "counterintuitive" rankings, but I suspect there are folks who feel the rankings are working perfectly. Your support of the tour is shaky? You skip Indian Wells and don't do well in Rome and Madrid? Guess what? Even if you rock the Majors, you still won't be No. 1. In some ways, maybe Serena's No. 2 ranking isn't an indictment at all. As someone put it to me recently: "The ranking system should be evaluated objectively, not through the lens of Serena Williams's career. I realize that it looks odd for Serena not to be ranked No. 1, but she's a close second, and all that can be expected for someone who is basically a world-class player on a part-time basis."
I've watched some old tennis matches on TV recently and realized how much more time players take between points today. I recommend that they eliminate the annoying habit of allowing players to go for their towel between every single point. It's ridiculous! They should only be allowed to get their towel between games. What do you think?
-- Xavier Arambula, Los Angeles
Rules are rules. If the players aren't violating the time allotment, they can do as they please. Also,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], some players -- including Federer -- waste little time between points. My pet peeve is the time spent between serves. Towel off after a rally? Okay. But why the lengthy routines between first and second serves?
Can we get a moratorium on the Safina vs. Serena No. 1 debate? Sure, it looks bad when a No. 1 player only wins one game against anyone. It would also look bad for a No. 1 player to lose three straight matches to middling opponents on clay. The system isn't perfect, but neither are the players.
-- Daniel, Toronto
Amen. Moratorium granted after today. But two points 1) I think there is a perfectly healthy debate to be had about the ranking system, the virtue of consistency versus the merits of excellence at the biggest moments. 2) Probably because no one picks on a woman holding three Majors, the discussion has mostly impugned Safina. But consider this note from a source close to the situation, wishing to remain anonymous: "Between Miami and Roland Garros, Serena played three matches (spanning four tournaments if you include Charleston that she withdrew from) earning seven ranking points compared to Safina, who played 15 matches, reaching the finals at Stuttgart and winning back-to-back titles at Rome and Madrid -- and earned 2120 ranking points."
Steffi Graf/Monica Seles and Roger Federer/Rafael Nadal -- there is something categorically different about why Seles and Nadal were unable to compete for Slams. Rafa was out of commission as a direct function of his playing style, and thus we can legitimately attribute Federer winning to his unprecedented durability and consistency (especially since he was probably dealing with the residua of mono when he fell behind Rafa for one year).
But Seles is different -- she was removed from competition because she was too dominant. Thus,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], her inability to win Slams does not reflect some weakness in her game (unlike Rafa physically breaking down), but is rather a testament to her ability.
Seems categorically different to me. It's the difference between Don Mattingly missing seasons for a bad back versus Monte Irvin missing prime seasons because he was black or Ted Williams missing seasons because of World War II and Korea -- their missing time was outside of their control, and there is every reason to think all of these athletes were dominant during the time that they missed.
I don't disagree and I should have done a better job distinguishing the material differences. But my point is that -- no matter how poignant the circumstances -- I have a hard time crediting athletes for achievements they didn't attain. Was Seles on pace to become the best ever? Absolutely. But how do we put her in that Graf-Evert-Navratilova division when -- though caused by a horrible act and through no fault of her own -- she won fewer than half as many Slams? And, conversely, it's hard for me to completely diminish the achievements if someone else -- in this case,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], Graf -- on the grounds that they didn't beat their rival or fortune played a role in their success.
You mention that Safina is benefiting from a "system that rewards a player." Just what are the rewards? Seedings? Big deal. It seems people are concerned that the rankings are not an accurate "predictor" of who would win a head-to-head match. Or who would win a head-to-head match in a major. It's all sounding very BCS-ish to me and I could care less what the rankings are for tennis. I look at power rankings and not polls when I care about who would win a football or basketball contest. Money lists and points earned don't always say who is better, but do have their place for year-end tournament qualifications and do provide some incentive for playing more. People should get over the fact they are not predictors.
-- Douglas Stewart, Miami
I'm not sure I agree with that. True, rankings are not always the best predictors. But there are plenty of practical effects of having a high ranking. For one, there's qualification for the year-end events. Many players have contracts that come with huge rankings bonuses. (No. 5 is worth more than No. 6. ) Seeding matters, especially at the smaller events, when a top seed can get a bye. Beyond that, I think there's basic value to having a system -- imperfect as it may be -- that identifies the top performers.
How come I don't read anyone getting to the real problem with the Safina/Williams debate? I think this can be the reason why Safina does well on regular WTA but not at Slams: the coaching. On Slams: no coaching; on WTA: coaching allowed. I've seen myself how Safina has been coached -- but really,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], I never have seen Serena or Venus having any coach to their side. Couldn't that explain why it has come to this. Stop the coaching on all tournaments, please.
-- Kalevi, Taeby, Sweden
I don't agree that Safina's problem stems from on-court coaching. But this letter is still another example of why this "experiment" is so awful. It creates the perception that the players are helpless damsels in distress. On-court coaching not only runs counter to tennis fundamental values, but also is completely at odds with the feminist message the WTA tries to convey. Stacey Allaster, please. Accept this bit of coaching from the sidelines and do the right thing here.
And as long as you brought it up, this is still another point in the Williams' sisters favor. They are self-sufficient, rarely if ever turning to their aides-de-camp during matches. They'll figure out the situation for themselves, thank you.
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