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|Too often we are pumping our brains with unhelpful procrastination and punishment scripts that paralyse us into inaction. It s easy to get into a habit of programming ourselves with reluctance, paralysis and self defeating thoughts. Why do we believe it will be easier not to do the tasks or work and instead put them off? Maybe we are afraid of failure. If we do the task we will not be successful, or it won t be perfect.
Eventually we get that something done and we realise how it was not that hard to just push through and get it completed and out of the way. Then we wonder why we didn t finish it sooner when it wasn t that hard, or didn t take that long. It s a wonderful feeling of euphoria when we overcome blocks, of seeing the end result of finishing. Maybe we procrastinate long enough so that when we do overcome that silly block (eg. completing a tax return, writing the report or finishing the budget) it is a euphoric feeling!
Successful people use helpful scripts and develop strategies to overcome and minimise these blocks. They learn how to recognise the signs of indecision and procrastination, and how to cut them off before they develop. Their negative feelings and scripts are kept to a minimum or rewritten quickly.
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The first step in dealing with our paralysis scripts is to recognise they exist: it is to look for internal and external barriers that stop us achieving our goals. Here are some helpful tips:
Keep focused on the big picture
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Tell someone you know what you are aiming to achieve. Share goals with those close to you.
Habits are our biggest obstacle to changing our behaviour. Habits are simply scripts, those that are part of the black box of our brains , deeply ingrained or embedded in us.
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